Top performers in business, sports, and any other challenging endeavor speak often of “trusting my gut.” Historically, there is another term for this, which is “Intuition,” and when I spoke with a client about this, he winced. “Sounds too much like ‘Women’s Intuition,’ he said. But who would limit themselves by gender when it comes […]
“When you change yourself, you change the world…” Not a new idea, though profound as you consider it fully. I’ve had clients who were so externally-focused and therefore their notion of “power” was making others conform to their will. While such things are clearly possible, it’s not the most effective way to influence others or […]
In any situation where you have more than one person, you’re likely to have more than one agenda. More than one desire, and throughout human history, we’ve come up with different ways of resolving such conflicts. In my book MindLeading™, I mention that this can include Power–whether by force, intimidation, authority, or persuasion. The latter […]
If you have a blade and you store it until you need it, then only take it out when you need it, you will often find it’s lost its edge. Time and elements, even when you’ve been careful to preserve it, have dulled the blade. The same is true for our mental and interpersonal skills. […]
If you’ve ever said something like, “I knew what to do, I just don’t do it,” or “Knowing what to do, I didn’t do what I know,” or even if you simply got so caught up in an argument or feeling attacked, then you can relate to emotional overwhelm. That’s when in the heat of […]
Leadership is not merely a title or position; it’s a journey of growth, empowerment, and service. Whether you’re leading a team in the workplace, guiding a community organization, or inspiring others in your personal life, the qualities of a great leader are universal and timeless. In this blog post, we’ll explore practical strategies and mindset […]
For something so vital to our everyday success, assertiveness sometimes gets a bad rap. Though in the tapestry of life, assertiveness is the golden thread that weaves together confidence, self-respect, and effective communication. It’s the ability to express yourself authentically, stand up for your rights, and navigate interpersonal interactions with grace and clarity. Yet, for […]
Critical Thinking seems like a pretty good idea, wouldn’t you say? Who among us hasn’t been asked some variation of the following question, typically as a child by a more knowledgeable adult, “Well if so-and-so said to jump off a bridge, too, would you do it? Just because he said so?” That sounds familiar, doesn’t […]
In a world filled with distractions and demands on our time, productivity has become a prized commodity. Whether you’re juggling work responsibilities, personal projects, or academic pursuits, finding ways to maximize your efficiency and output is essential for success. In this blog post, we’ll explore practical strategies and mindset shifts to help you unlock your […]
Creativity has always been a vital tool–starting with our earliest ancestors until even today. If the tribe–or the company–had a visionary, a creative problem solver who could learn to capitalize on a challenge, that group was better equipped to survive–even prosper. Today, in this fast-paced world of ours, the ability to generate new ideas is […]