Perhaps the most common theme in this site is to pay attention. In NLP, we speak of “sensory acuity”, maintaining a sharp awareness of our surroundings, scanning for opportunities, threats, any relevant details. It also refers to perceiving as accurately as possible those details. Though bias is inevitable, we strive to capture details with as little […]
The As-If Frame is based upon Ericksonian Hypnosis technique which leverages a “pseudo-orientation in time.” What do we mean by that? Let’s say you are yourself or are working with someone who feels “stuck” by a problem. “Stuck states” often lead to limited behavioral flexibility, which robs us of our power over ourselves, our influence […]
“Wealth inequality” has become a buzz term in the United States recently, and as we head into an election year, it seems that each candidate whose ambition is pushing him or her toward the White House has something to say on the matter. I appreciate that for many people this is a very sensitive topic, […]
Life is a rollercoaster of experiences, filled with moments of joy, triumph, and connection, but also with challenges, setbacks, and adversity. During these tumultuous times, our emotions can often feel like a wild ride, swinging from highs to lows and everything in between. However, mastering emotional resilience is essential for navigating adversity with grace, strength, […]
Both in my personal and professional lives, I’ve continually seen examples of past events influencing the present. This doesn’t surprise me, as our present reality is rarely one we think to create ourselves. This despite the fact that we absolutely can do so. More often, it is the product of years of experiences, both pleasurable […]
In the dynamic landscape of the workplace, navigating relationships with coworkers can sometimes feel like playing a strategic game where every move matters. When faced with a competitive coworker, understanding their motivations, behaviors, and potential actions becomes crucial for maintaining productivity, fostering collaboration, and achieving success. This is where game theory, a powerful framework for […]
We could begin by saying that “in today’s fast-paced world,” as if what follows only recently became important. But we’re about to explore efficiency and innovation at solving problems, working smarter. Seriously, when has that not mattered? Today, as ever, success isn’t just about working hard – it’s about working smart. That means maximizing your […]
In my workshops, I’m continually surprised by how many people are initially uncomfortable with demonstrating self-confidence. “I don’t want to come across as arrogant or bossy,” I’ve heard many times. Think about the presupposition in that–believing in yourself somehow is a bad thing! Yet in a world filled with challenges and uncertainties, confidence becomes our […]
Emotional intelligence (EI, or sometimes “EQ” for “Emotional Quotient”) is a critical skill that encompasses the ability to recognize, understand, and manage our own emotions, as well as the emotions of others. In today’s fast-paced world, enhancing EI is increasingly recognized as a pathway to both personal and professional growth. This blog post explores the […]
Whether you believe in such concepts as “fate” or “signs from God”, or (substitute your own term for divine intervention or synchronicity), every now and then life reveals glimpses or reminders of the path to which we’ve devoted ourselves. Keli, my wife, and I were walking into a store not long ago, around sunset. The […]